HJ: You’re a kind, loving, generous, caring, conscious person… but are you letting that get in the way of your true, authentic self? It’s a problem many of us face — we don’t want to hurt or offend people so we don’t always say what we feel inside. We are kind… to a fault, which serves no one. You see, not saying what you feel compelled to say (as long as you are coming from a genuine, centered place) — being too nice — is actually hurting you and the other person.
You are covering up your true, authentic self and keeping the other person from something they may desperately need to hear. It may not always be a comfortable thing to say or do, but that doesn’t mean it cannot have major benefits in the long (or even short) term for that person. It’s the classic story of the emperor with no clothes. Everyone was too afraid to tell him he was naked! Often times you may be bringing something to the awareness of another person that they desperately need to hear, but are too confused or in denial to figure out themselves.
Personally, if I am way out of line (or someone feels strongly that I am), I welcome them to tell me. I know that as long as they are not coming from a place of hurt or fear, that its genuinely meant to help me. It’s a sign of caring. Telling someone something you think may help them — even if they might get bent out of shape — is a gesture of kindness and compassion… and it’s an expression of your true self.
On the other side of the coin, being too nice can lead other people to take advantage of or walk all over you, which is also not a healthy pattern to be engaged in.
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If you checked in with yourself energetically throughout the day, and asked yourself, what is it that I need in this right Now moment, you would become very present. You would practice greater self care and nurturing. And you would see that the vast majority of the time, you have everything you need to be completely comfortable in the magic of the Now. From finally seeing and accepting the fact that you are absolutely fine in those Now moments, you will pave the way for your future moments as well. You will find the peace you crave, both in your todays, and in your tomorrows. ~Archangel Gabriel
LIFE GIVES US EVERYTHING and everything in life can be a pleasure. Why not believe in the generosity of life? Why not learn to be generous and kind to yourself? If that makes you happy, and you’re good to everybody around you, why not? If you’re always transforming—if your dream is always changing even if you don’t want to change—why not master the transformation and create your personal heaven?
The human beings who become very adept at conscious creation are the ones who embody focused flexibility. They stay focused on what they wish to create, but not so rigidly that it prevents the universe from delivering even better than what they can, from their limited vantage point, imagine. That is the key to co-creating with your guides, higher self and the universe – having the faith, focus and flexibility to move into your highest life expression. ~Archangel Gabriel
