Becoming Emotionally Self-Reliant - Zenhabits

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I’m the first to admit that for many years, I was a bit emotionally needy.

Not in a crazy, desperate way, but in the way that many of us are. I wanted someone else to make me happy, blamed others for my unhappiness, sought to fulfill my emotional needs through others.

This caused all kinds of problems I didn’t even realize were there: I’d have relationship problems because if the other person wasn’t meeting my needs, I’d resent it. I’d be unhappy lots of the time, because I thought happiness was outside of me, and therefore it was unreliable and elusive. I was helpless, because if other people are supposed to make me happy and fulfill my needs, then what could I do if they didn’t? What could I do if they hurt me instead?

Only in the last few years have I been becoming more emotionally self-reliant. It’s made my relationships better, and has greatly increased my happiness.

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Daily Message ~ Saturday March 15, 2014 - Trinity Esoterics

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You are all evolving beyond old belief systems and structures that were designed to encourage you to give your power away. You gave your power away to your parents, your teachers, your doctors, your bosses, your leaders. This has been so pervasive, for so very long, many of you had come to believe that you were powerless in so many areas of your lives. Why, for some of you, you did not even choose your careers or who you would marry! This is the conditioning that you have all been so busy releasing and evolving beyond.

Hear us when we say that you have infinite ability to create the life you wish to lead. You are the experts on you, and what you are on the planet to experience and create. You have worked hard to step into your authentic power and you are more than ready for it! You are gentle, kind, mindful, beautiful aspects of God, and are seeking to step into unity and the energies of creation and unconditional love. You are all finding new balance points that allow you to honour others in their expertise as well as honouring your own. What an amazing time on your planet, and it is happening because of each and every one of you! You are truly divine and powerful and breathtaking to behold. ~Archangel Gabriel

The Mystery within Us - Knowing Whispers

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The mind fades into the silence, silence reveals our true identity without limitation.
We become whole by feeling within, the silent nature of existence. Feelings transform us from all limitation and awaken the nature of our true identity in consciousness. They are life and existence surfing on the ocean of eternal feeling.
Truth is what is left when we abandon the mind and become fully conscious within the silence.

In the silence we must accept ourselves as we truly are, because all searching has ceased and we are confronted with the great mystery. It all ends where it all began and we are overwhelmed by the realization of this truth in being.


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