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Does Unconditional LOVE Lead to Co-Dependency?

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Isn’t acting in a way that pleases someone the same thing as unconditional love? Aren’t making concessions part of “turning the other cheek”? These are some common questions people have about unconditional love because, more than likely, they have never experienced unconditional love.

Co-dependancy has no place in unconditional love since having a person become dependant on you enables them to be in some form of “dysfunction”. Do you really like living with an alcoholic, drug-abuser and/or spouse beater? Your non-descriminatory behavior where you “look the other way” while hurtful circumstances occur may seem “loving” to your partner, but what about you?

Where does unconditional LOVE fit into a co-dependant relationship? Unconditional LOVE can only exist when LOVE is given freely without conditions (i.e. getting LOVE for yourself in return). Partnerships always rely on a certain amount of “give and take”, but when one partner consistently gives in to the desires of another while ignoring their own needs and wants…there is a problem.

The problem here is one of judgement. Not one of us is able to say whether alcoholism, or drug-abuse, or even spousal abuse is either a good or bad thing. We certainly don’t like to see what look like “negative effects” from these issues. But how do we know these “negative effects” are truly negative?

Case in point. Marriage to an alcoholic is not pretty, but perhaps the “negative” circumstances of that marriage prompt one partner, and/or the other partner to truly seek their emotional freedom instead of developing a co-dependant relationship. In this case, the alcoholic marriage is actually a tool used for soul nourishment.

Reduce the Risk of Bone Weakening by 45%

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Soy milk is the most popular milk alternative. It is made from soybeans rich in nutrients and proteins, essential fatty acids, and vitamins and minerals which keep the body healthy. Also, it is great for individuals with high blood pressure, high cholesterol or predisposed to heart diseases.

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Soy protein is generally regarded as a high-quality protein, and this is the most abundant protein type in the soy milk. One cup contains 7 grams of proteins, full of different but necessary amino acids. Soybean milk helps in creating a strong muscle, but you should bear in mind that it will increase your estrogen levels.

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A Message From Our Lady -- February 16, 2014

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A Message From Our Lady: February 16, 2014

 

Good Morning!
It is a brand new day. Everything will start from this moment. Everything that I have said to you in the past shall take on an uncanny new appearance, for everything shall be uncovered with the Light.

Everywhere you look, everything around you, everything you see with your own two eyes (she points to hers) shall take on a beautiful blessing!

For you shall see, and you shall know in fact with the heart and its emotion that it gives you while you are seeing, that everything is blessed! everything is blessed! everything is blessed!

(she points to herself) Even me. I am Blessed to be here with you to speak and share this message with you.

You may ask yourself, 'If everything is blessed, what about the 'dark parts' that hurt and are not pleasant? For I do not like them or enjoy them at all, not one bit!'

But you see, with my eyes, I see shadows add much definition and what more clearer way to point to the Light than the behaviors of 'ones who are like this?'

They are going to be exposing themselves, the 'little buggers', and it will be so obvious to everyone 'what are their tricks'!

Metatronic Numerology Frequency Report: 2/16/14 – Intelligence Seeking Self & The Metamorphosis of Structured Power

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2/16/14

Today is a 7 Frequency day with a 77 Sub-frequency influence. Then added to this we have an 11/44 Minor frequency combination influence.

The I AM Keyword phrases for 7, 77, 11 and 44 are:

7 – I AM Intelligence Seeking Self

77 – I Am the Divinely Inspired Synthesis of Spiritual Intuition and Physical Intelligence

11 – I AM Truth Illumined through Spiritual Revelation

44 – I Am Structured Power & Metamorphosis

First today’s daily reminder for this month’s main work and focus.

Today is the first of three days that our focus on Continuously Living in a State of Divine Unconditional Love associated with the work of Cleansing, Realigning and Consciously Evolving the Double Helix Human Strand DNA is in seven hour increments of time.

Remember to revisit the Guided Meditation to be used in conjunction with this work to assist you in this process as often as you feel it deemed necessary for yourself.

The Guided Meditation can be found at the following link…

Tomato Juice as Protection Against Breast Cancer

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Recent studies have found that a glass of tomato juice protects against breast cancer. Tomato juice helps produce a hormone which is thought to protect our body from these kinds of diseases.

Women should drink tomato juice daily. Just one glass of this juice contains sufficient amount of lycopene, a substance which is believed to protect against breast cancer. This hormone is involved in regulating the blood fat levels even above the normal weight, which in turn increase the risk of cancer.

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Every Part of Your Body is Linked to an Emotion

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Hi All,

Well, many of you know that I work in the medical field…the hospital laboratory to be exact and I have a pretty good knowledge of disease (dis-ease) states. You also know that my favorite topic in the world is LOVE. So…let’s put these two interests of mine together for this blog.

I’m all about helping people to feel better and have used my knowledge of “western” medicine as a basis for trying and using alternative methods since “western” medicine is a business designed to impoverish us (and that is working!). How does LOVE get into healing? Because LOVE is how we naturally feel when there are no negative emotions in our mind.

Our reactions to life today DO NOT produce LOVE. But, when all the fear, anger, disappointment, moodiness, sadness, disgust and all the other negative reactions from living the “circus” life today are removed, all that remains is LOVE and LOVE does not cause disease (dis-ease). Do you have medical issues? Look at this article that shows which negative emotion is responsible for which ailment:http://lucas2012infos.wordpress.com/2014/02/15/mahala-every-part-of-your-body-is-linked-to-an-emotion-15-february-2014/. Can LOVE solve each one of these medical issues? You bet! I just had the flu (or was it really mycoplasma from chemtrails) and it was a very effective way of teaching me to slow down and do what I really like to do!

So, I do work at the hospital, but now I paint on the weekends. This is very relaxing and a creative stimulus for me to experience more LOVE in my life. Yes!

Enjoy!

cindyloucbp (roserambles.org)

FEBRUARY 14TH - FULL MOON IN LEO -- LOVE IS IN THE AIR

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AstroEyes Evolutionary Astrology -- Cathy Lindsey

There is a lot of Love in the air during this Full Leo Moon!  Not only is the Full Moon in Leo, which is about love, romance and coming from the Heart……but it is happening on Valentine’s Day, which is a day put aside for all relationships that involve Love, especially for romantic Love relationships!   This Full Moon is also happening on the Star Regulus in the constellation of Leo.  This indicates a focus on the Heart!  Regulus is about humanity’s shift into becoming Heart centered.  It is as if the Universe has given us the gift of Cosmic Love!!  The Universe is speaking loudly with this Full Leo Moon!!   Are you Listening?

Full Moons are a time of releasing. Remember that Full Moon energy last a day and half on each side of the peak.   It is a time of releasing the old that is no longer working. Go deep into yourself, your foundations and old perceptions and observe what is no longer working for you…..especially in the areas of Love.  What and who are no longer vibrating where you are vibrating?  What blockages have you put up that you need to release, so you can be in a positive relationship.  It is a time of purging and releasing in all areas of your life.   What relationships (romantic, work, family , friends ) are no longer working for you?

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