You have seen it many times; a parent attempting to direct their young child away from something that has captured their attention. In one instance, the parent imposes their will and the child is taken from the object of his/her brief affection kicking and screaming until something else equally fascinating appears. In the second instance; they talk gently to the child, offering choices and waiting patiently while the child processes the information.
The Universe has been (and will always be) the patient, gentle parent to you. You’ve been gifted free will, the opportunity to choose your path and you will never be denied this experience. ~ Creator