If someone asks you to change to meet their needs, you will never attain it.  Know that you are good enough for you.  If someone wants you to be different than who you are, it will never happen.  Know you can be different in a way that suits your needs.  If someone wants to push you to some mythical standard that only they know about, you will never achieve it.  You can become the best you that you can be.
Define yourself by, strive for, celebrate your accomplishments and release the needs to meld to others expectations.  You are the most perfect you that you can be in any given moment and I love you just the way you are! ~ Creator

Everyone wants to live life to the fullest, in fact that its what life is all about. We are here to experience life to it’s fullest potential – the highs, the lows and everything else in between.

Many of us however, are short changing ourselves by believing certain values or constraints. These beliefs hold us back and prevent us from living our best life.

The top 7 beliefs that prevent us from living our best life include-

1.) It’s Not Important to Love Yourself:

Loving yourself is one of the most important and fundamental things we can do in order to live life to it’s fullest potential. Loving yourself doesn’t just mean that you superficially pamper yourself with material items or a day at the spa, loving yourself means that you wholeheartedly accept, appreciate and express gratitude for being in your body every day.

A sense of depression is a passing thing. No matter how deep it may seem, it is a passing thing. It’s a moment’s thought like any other passing thought. Thoughts jump around all over the place. A thought is just a thought. Why dwell on thoughts that do not serve you or the Universe?

You are not here on Earth for yourself. Of yourself, you make of yourself too small a field. You make of yourself too much effort. Don’t try so hard. Beloveds, just be. Just be, and what can the matter be? Dry up your self-persecution. Let go of improving yourself. Too often improving yourself turns into self-depreciation. You play a trick on yourself.

There is no outside you. You manufacture events, and you forget your Wholeness. You distract yourself from the Joy of Life. You focus on the past, or you focus on the future. So much self-attention on yourself. You tear yourself down and forget to build yourself back up.

Would you be so careless with a Child of God? Apparently so. You negate yourself. It isn’t that you have to build yourself up. You have to stop tearing yourself down.

Are you so sure you know better than I do? I do not find you wanting. You find yourself wanting. You beat yourself up. Forgo bearing false testimony against yourself.

You blame the world, and you blame Me. You blame life. You castigate life, and you castigate yourself. Cease putting yourself down. Come to your own rescue.

“If every eight year old in the world is taught meditation, we will eliminate violence from the world within one generation.” –Dalai Lama

We hear arguments for prayer in school all the time, but you don’t hear too many people asking for kids to be given the opportunity to meditate while in the classroom. Meditation has a clear physical and psychological benefits to the person meditating.

More and more, adults are turning to meditation to relieve stress and improve mental clarity, but it doesn’t stop there. Young people of nearly any age are able to learn to meditate as well. And it’s good, because children are definitely capable of feeling the same degree of stress that adults do.

After attending a lecture on "out of body experiences," a 24-year-old student from the University of Ottawa approached her professor saying, "I thought everybody could do that." She can apparently do this at will — making her the first person with this condition to be studied.

The resulting paper, which now appears in Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, describes the condition as something of an illusion, where a person's ability to track their body's position in space and time has somehow become externalized. In this extraordinary case, the university student claims she can do this whenever she wants — to induce the feeling that she can experience her body moving outside the boundaries of her physical body, while remaining aware of her unmoving physical body.