Message from the Earth Allie: Friendship and illusion
In a world of separation friendship has been often considered a gift. Being with a friend made people feel less separated, less lonely, but frienship as it was is part of the same illusion as all that pertains to the 3d reality.
A friend implies a note of "someone special", someone you love more than others, someone you put somewhere up there in your personal sphere...
and often fell down and "outch".
It's time to let go this idea of "specials".
For if you look at frienship they came and went as anything else inside this dream. You moved, you changed, you grew, and friends changed as you changed your dream into the next stage.
Sometimes they helped, sometimes they made you cry, sometimes they left... has been part of the play, though if you truly want to make the one step more...
there's no such thing.
At least not in the sense it was done so far.
In an All Equal and part of the same, noone is special.
And relations are based on Truth, not on convenience.
And whoever you meet is as special as the one you've been knowing all your life!
Look back at your friendship relations, how many of them were, or are based on truth.
Are you able to tell the truth Always, or do you hold back "not to hurt", or because it's more convenient?
This is an important distinction as Truth has to become your own Breath. And no so called friend can hold you back.
If you do so think of why... afraid of loosing your friend?
Afraid of getting into some issues?
Afraid of not being loved anymore?
Afraid of judgment?
These are all parts of the same illusion: that you're separated.
Thus, if you are not able to Be the truth you Are with those you consider your friends, when will you start? How can one pretend to tell/Be the truth in front of others? And in front of one Self?
All this journey is about learning to let go all that is not True, to re-member that nothing can be harmed in Truth. So if you feel you cannot Be yourself or True with a friend, that is not a friend. It's simply a projection of what you'd like it to be by remaining in a safe illusionary corner.
That is not Love.
That is fear.
It's still part of the illusionary mind that builds illusionary relationships to fill an illusionary gap.
And keeps you there as it's dressed with a friendship label.
Especially if you believe you're in sevice to this friend... and thus are not able to tell the Truth.
That's one of the worst prisons where illusion can bring you.
Only a mask/ego can be hurt, and if you're hurt by a friend's Truth or you hurt him with your Truth, remember it's not the Truth that is hurt, it's not You or Him, it's simply the mask you're wearing.
True ralationships cannot let fear come in.
Once you're clear in Love nothing can offend you and nothing can hurt you.
And Truth will make you feel grateful, not harmed. Whereas illusion will simply not touch you.
Nor will you ever be afraid of telling the Truth... that's impossible in Pure Love.
If you still are afraid... then your relation is still part of the illusion.
Once you let it go, you'll gain the Freedom of Being Yourself, not only with "friends" but with yourSelf which means with All.
Have you not waited so long for this?
All our Love
Your Earth Allies
