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Dear Ones,
You likely feel frazzled and discombobulated. Such is so because your new being is showing itself in many different ways, including not always knowing what you will say or do.
This is a week of discontent and joy. Not because you have done or said something wrong, but because you are feeling freedoms you have likely not yet accepted.
Those closest to you are probably shocked, shamed, or angry at the words and actions that seem to spill naturally from your being. And even though you know you should apologize or redo the experience, you do not want to.
You have become a maverick in both your actions and your words. You are blurting out words that may feel painful, even to you. But that feeling does not and cannot stop you from becoming who you wish to be.
You have been play-acting for eons of Earth lives. Fitting in and grasping for comfort by plying others with the "right" words and actions. So your new freedom to be you seems wrong, maybe even evil, instead of just you being you.
At first, you will apologize and perhaps beg for forgiveness. But if the actions and words of others do not comply with your interests and needs, you will discover an extreme disinterest in being part of their world.
So you will begin sloughing off those who no longer enhance your being and search for those who do. This is a time of compatibility in so many ways - interests, personalities, actions, and words. Perhaps a frightening time. Not because your words and actions do not feel true to the new you, but because they are so counter to who you thought you were.
In a way, you will be battling yourself because new you is emerging, whether or not you like the being that you are becoming. Even though that last statement creates fear in most of you reading this message, it was not meant to. But if that fear continues despite your need to verbalize and act on your inner voice, it merely means you are not yet ready to be new you. You cannot become a new being if your primary concern is how you will fit in with others.
You have come to another major crossroad. We of the Universes have long discussed new indicators of you and self-love. But concerns that you might shift so dramatically that others will not like you indicate that you are not yet ready to completely abandon your 3D being.
This is not bad or wrong; it is merely a timing issue that you will rectify when it is right for you. Allow yourself the time and energy to complete this aspect of your transition when it feels more important to you than not.
If you continue to blame, shame, or isolate yourself because of your newfound independence from shoulds and have-tos, it is not yet time for you to transition to total freedom.
You allow infants to crawl and move about in ways that are most productive for them. Now allow the same for yourself. There is so much Universal energy pumeling you daily, as well as your inner need to expand your new-you repertoire, that you might need time to rest before completely switching to new you.
The only counterproductive aspect to your current development is holding back your new skill set so that others you care about can catch up. This is not a natural flow, but instead a return to 3D caretaking. You will never fully transition if you continue to caretake those who can take care of themselves, despite their cries to the contrary.
Some of your relationships will not last through this current phase of personal freedom. Even though that might seem frightening now, hindsight will tell you that they were not dimensionally available to maintain your relationship with them.
This is a self-care time. What do you need to feel comfortable and right? Not what does the world, your family and friends, employer, or government need? This is a new era, and you are one of the founding members.
There is no written law or right action. There is only you discovering what makes you sing and laugh within. Something that others can no longer provide you to the same level. Their insistence that you be who is right for them ensures that you will not be right for yourself.
This message is not an isolation dictate; it is merely a reminder that caretaking is no longer your interest or role. Your new role is the freedom to be. So tap down your need to be whatever others want and allow yourself to express in whatever way feels right when it is time for you to do so.
You will know when that time arrives by the feelings emoted from your inner being. It could be tomorrow or next year, but it will happen whether or not it feels comfortable for you now, just as you could not stop puberty or growing older, no matter how hard you tried to do so. So be it. Amen.
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