Ida Lawrence ~ Tend to Me ~Love Me ~Nurture Me

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Zen-Haven July 14 2013

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The increasing restriction of this world has the effect of increasing the forces of liberation: we are awakening to a new way of being. It’s organic and evolutionary. As we prepare for the changes to come, our intent is clear: disengage, transition through, and renew life within a unified spirit – oneness with all that is – in accord with nature.

The divine feminine energy (within both women and men), is at the helm of this renewal. We realize that we must balance the masculine/feminine poles, love the love and trust our unified intent in order to step away from the abyss and move forward as one.

We believe we know what the divine feminine and masculine poles are, as Stuart Wilde and others have taken us a long way into learning. We women greatly appreciate a man who allows his heart to open to the softer, more intuitive, more tender and respectful side of himself. We trust that man, and we find ourselves able to love him more openly, without fear of being harmed.

But to my mind we still have a long way to go, as we have traveled very far from love and unity. How else can this partnership be advanced on a deep and abiding level but to look more into who we are and expose the truth?

These ‘deep within’ places are the vulnerable parts of ourselves, and we don’t want them diminished. The world of restriction that we are leaving is an attack and diminish world, and if there’s anything we know for sure, it’s that we’ve experienced enough of that.

I’m sure that’s why Stuart emphasized the three graces… tenderness, generosity and respect. Bringing this energy of grace into our being is the ‘must have’ foundation upon which to build trust and eventually, reverence for the divinity within each other.

Perhaps we’re working on comprehending and unifying the feminine and masculine poles within ourselves, refining our balance, understanding where our anger is, where our hurt is, what our memories of relationships do to us, where our weakness lies. But, as I see it, damage will continue to be done until we can refine our outer masculine/feminine relationships and use tenderness, generosity and respect as the ground we stand on with each other.

All too often we’re faking it in the masculine/feminine mutual admiration arena. I’m grateful to my sons and godsons for openly talking with me about these things. They have developed trust, as they have seen the feminine essence in their mother working things through in front of their eyes.

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male/female 'roles'

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I think this is a great, balanced way of seeing what is happening today.  Thank you!