18 January 2014 - 1:41pm | 
love@unconditionally
The love on its highest form is equal exchange of positive energy. The equal exchange means that there is willingness from both to exchange this energy and they enjoy of this exchange. There can be also love from one to many, and many to many – but this also is based on equal exchange of energy. This positive energy is an attitude that aims the greatest good for another(s) and very often this is initiated by admiring something in another over the subjects we would like to fix on another. If we are unable to see anything to love in another we must look within and see very closely what are the parts we do not like at ourselves, seeking improvement on these areas helps us to awaken self-love and eventually will help us to see and feel the love from others. The ones who are very easy to love and approach are normally ones who have very balanced relationship with themselves. When we seek to love others the good way is to start working within to get a self to a point that we are very proud of our inner world, our words and actions. When we “hear” constant positive self talk in our mind, we reflect out an authentic, real positive attitude. This positive attitude is the key, the greatest mysterious key to open the others hearts. When we feel love from many, constantly we open their hearts, this ability bring in a huge responsibility. We need to be very thoughtful how to handle this, because in this world there is incredible amount of people seeking love. This seeking love is our built in compass to find our way back home to divine, so many seek love and have and issue on finding it and so often when we find the love it may escape somehow. As many of us seek this love from outside in form of other person we may be over and over again find ourselves in the issues with our loves. The reason for this constant chain of issues is that we may have forgotten to seek this love from within. When we truly value ourselves the way we value our greatest possible love, we are ready to love another(s) infinitely. When we look at a person who desperately seek a partner and cannot find it, going to self-blame and wondering what is wrong with me the question was presented that needs to be answered. There is nothing really wrong in us we just may not have found the what is very good in us and love and nurtured that enough. The balanced self love has nothing to do to being selfish or narsistic. Balanced self-love is very authentic honest love where we simply value our goodness and once we value it, we never get it spoiled with our own negative attitude.
love
T
