As I read Ann Albers' post it really resonated with what has been happening lately to me and probably many of us in our current relationships. Since early to mid-March I have noticed somewhat of a frantic, frenetic energy coming out of my partner. He has been trying to fix and make perfect so many many things. He has been selfish, self-absorbed and very needy. The difference is - I totally let go in March! I am FREE - I literally am I AM. As my spirit and soul get stonger and stronger as the EGO died, I am noticing this EGO fight out of people - the EGO is trying so hard to survive and be satisfied.
I feel myself pulling away as I am not willing to participate in this completely off-balance uneven exchange. I find myself looking upwards and asking "Really??? How much longer do I have to deal with this 3d world and EGO...this is so boring I am ready to move on to TOTAL LOVE, LIGHT and ABUNDANCE OF SPIRIT with all of the I AMs who are also ready to go.
I have experienced what Ann mentioned in the past - that total sadness and emptiness when you let go of a relationship but that was the EGO - the EGO was sad - not the spirit. It was the attachment and the memories and all of that that we miss.