Releasing your attachment to how things should look or be is one of the most helpful things you can do in your enlightenment process.
When you become attached to an outcome, you can become resistant to any other potential. This can be extremely limiting to you, as the universe and your highest self often have a far grander plan than you could ever imagine for yourself.
The problem with becoming rigidly opposed to anything other than your plan is that, in itself, creates a resistance to the flow. Surrender and flow are, of course, the means to your next greatest creations.
Trust, Dear ones! Again we say allow the universe to serve and delight you. Open yourselves up to the magic and wonder that is the specialty of the flow, and know that it will always deliver your highest result, often beyond your wildest dreams. Remember, the joy of a surprise is that it is something you couldn’t have expected. ~Archangel Gabriel
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