If you are feeling out of the flow of creation, we would advise you to consciously start paying attention to how many times your focus is on a no, and switch your focus to all the things you can say yes to.
Feel into the energy of a no and a yes. No’s immediately stop the flow of energy, while yeses encourage forward movement. No’s are separating while yeses are inclusive. No’s are resistant, while yeses are accepting.
How many times do you say yes to others and no to yourselves? This is a common trait among enlightening human beings and one that will keep you outside of the full experience of the love and flow of the universe is trying to provide you.
Many of you say no out of habit because you feel overwhelmed and we understand that. But a yes to support will always be far more powerful and serve you far better than a no that will separate you.
For example, imagine saying no to a party, then imagine saying yes to spending some much needed alone time. Both support your desire, but the latter still has flow and inclusion. It is a matter of not pushing against what is unwanted, but rather choosing the positive aspect of your desire.
We are not advocating saying yes to things that do not honour you, Dear Ones. We are encouraging you to start to look for all the things in your life that you can say yes to, which will automatically create more comfort, gratitude, and forward movement in both your todays and tomorrows. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young
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