Fear of Failure: The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

Isis Ra's picture

**The GFP does not find all articles to be 100% accurate, so we recommend using discernment when reading**

Have you ever avoided applying to a job because you assumed you wouldn’t be hired?

Have you ever not asked someone out since you thought they’d say “no”?

Yesterday I had a client say, “I’m not a pessimist, I’m a realist.” This stuck with me and got me thinking about the fear of failure. Why do we let our fear of something that hasn't happened get in the way of our happiness? Why does our anxiety feel more real to us than the goal we’re trying to achieve?

Before I awakened to my truth, I played small. I avoided taking action on things even if they seemed like a “sure bet.” No matter how amazing the goal or painful not achieving it was, I didn’t move. I felt stuck, unconsciously wishing to continue living in my potential just in case things didn’t work out. Eventually, I learned that the fear of failure ensures failure.

Read the rest here:

http://www.alignedholistics.com/blog/fear-of-failure

The Galactic Free Press appreciates any donations we receive to help the site run smoothly and to hopefully help remove ads asap. To donate, please visit: http://soundofheart.org/galacticfreepress/content/donate 

 

Category: