It’s an interesting issue that got me thinking about my relationships and business. As I began to align with my authentic self, my life transformed. Many of my unhealthy and codependent relationships fell away, but some still remained. Why was that? Was it preventing me from creating space for the right people? How could I clear that out to attract bigger & better?
The answer is that attraction is a 2 phase process:
Phase 1: Remove The Obstacles
There are 2 Principals that inform where we are before we can work on attracting new people:
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We attract people who mirror where we are.
Whether it was in my business or relationships, everyone who came into my life mirrored and confirmed where I was in my journey and my beliefs about myself. I had to shift my perception of myself in order to move through this. -
We accept the love we think we deserve.
Ugh. This one was big. Even though I was getting healthier, I didn’t think I deserved any better. I was in a cycle of thinking that drama-filled love and flaky clients was all I truly deserved. A strong self-love practice helped me to cultivate better self-esteem.
As you begin to see yourself more clearly, you can get rid of old baggage and create space for new people to come in.
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Excellent advice. And
''Two girls, one kiss....''