Many of you have swung wildly from selflessness (which excludes the self) to the other end of the spectrum to a self love practice which also involves separation. It is good to experience both extremes, for you are gathering all of the information required to find balance and inclusion with your love practice.
Dear Ones, the true expression of love is never separating. It is always inclusive, supportive, safe, healthy, and nurturing. Self love is simply making yourself equally deserving of the love and care you so beautifully give others. Healthy boundaries, acceptance, and balance keep the flow open and constant, in ways that empower both yourselves and others.
Love is not a commodity, but rather the constant that you seek. It is a state of alignment and actuation that is ever expanding and the embodiment of your divine beingness. It is truly what anchors the energy of heaven on earth. ~Archangel Gabriel
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