As you continue along your healing journey, many old patterns and habits will be up for review and for change. What often accompanies this is a need for the readjustment of boundaries.

Healthy boundaries have been a major theme for enlightening human beings. Simply put, healthy boundaries are about creating a space that is loving and empowering for all. What that means may shift or move according to each individual situation.

A simple rule of thumb you may wish to use as you explore the creation of healthy boundaries is to simply make sure that you are never more invested in another person’s wellness than they are in their own, and to make sure you are not more invested in another person’s wellness more than you are in your own.  Making sure if you do step up to give assistance you are doing it from your heart and not from obligation or an unhealthy desire to control is important. To give under such circumstances often leads to resentment.

You are wise, Dear Ones, and by simply stopping and evaluating from your latest level of mastery, you will be able to find the place that supports everyone in showing up in their highest expression of self.  Sometimes that might mean stepping in with others to help stabilize them during crisis, other times it might be stepping back and offering encouragement so they can find their own divine capability. Allow your boundaries to be part of the flow of support, love, and wellness for all, and you cannot make a mistake. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

Dear Ones, you are ever shifting beings of flow. What that means is that your needs are ever changing. There may be times of release, or times of integration. There will be times of giving, and times of receiving. Times of connection and times of solitude. Times of activity and times of rest. Times of being love and times of being loved.

What we urge is that you not make yourself wrong over any of it. If you can simply stay present and trust what it is that is needed and supported at any given time, you will embrace your divine nature of being part of a much larger flow, and you will understand that everything you could ever need will be identified and provided for you through the natural rhythm of the universe. You will also discover that the balance you seek is inherently part of that larger flow that you are already a beloved part of. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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Many people will have opinions on what path you should be walking.  There may be times when you do not trust yourself and feel the need ask others their thoughts while disregarding your own.  You may receive very strong direction from The Universe and choose to second guess yourself.  This is a part of being human! (Smiling)  It takes practice to be able to hear and understand those messages.  Embrace the fact that each of you has your own way of deciphering.  One way is not better than the other and no one carries ‘exclusive’ information.  The best thing to do is listen to your heart, it will always show you what is perfect for you! ~ Creator

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God said:

Beloved, it isn’t just that you can expand your vision. It isn’t just that you can see differently from how you presently see. If you want your life to change, then change.

Unless your life is consistently as you pretty much want it to be, then it behooves you to change. Otherwise, you tend to cut yourself off from the life you desire. Get away from how you presently see. There is something in your landscape to change. You may have a blind spot. Turn the lights on.

It is time to get moving again, dearest one!  Like dragging yourself out of a nice, warm bed on a very cold morning…you may be a bit reluctant to begin.  But, begin you must! (Smiling)  This next surge of change will feel a bit different from the others because there is a great deal of joy attached to it, like a child waking up and knowing they are finally going to Disneyland!

Take this wonderful burst of energy and put it to good use; step outside your comfort zone, explore parts of your inner workings that you may not have touched in years, remember what it is like to be unfettered by heavy, cumbersome thoughts.  Play, dance, love with abandon and know, with certainty, the light you creating now will be sent to every single soul on your Earth plane. ~ Creator

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