Dear Ones, do you have trouble accepting love because you fear it will come with strings attached? The core of this fear is that you will be beholden to another or be enslaved. This is based on the old model of conditional love which is a model of using love to control another. These are old energies which are looking to be released.

Understand that if you have these fears they are old experiences/energies that are looking for healing. The core of this is the idea that love means giving your power away. As power is a major theme on your planet right now, all the ways that power has been abused, misused, or misrepresented are up for review. This is a wonderful thing!

When you love with an attachment to what another may or may not do, you are still attempting to find success within a conditional love model. The love you seek exists on an entirely different vibrational layer.

Love, the unconditional love you know in your heart truly exists and is what you wish to experience, is an expression of self. It is love without attachment to outcome because you understand that the joy is in the giving of it, in the allowing of it to flow to you and through you. You know that love in its purest form is expansive, healing, supportive, and freeing.

Dear Ones, the people who push your energetic buttons are the very ones who are showing up to help you master your boundaries and get clear about what energy is in resonance with you or not. As the empowered leader of your own life expression, you are absolutely within your rights to say no to anything that is not empowering, uplifting, supportive, or honouring you and your sovereignty.

Just as a good parent will step in to keep their child protected from anything that isn’t appropriate, you get to do the same thing for yourself, as your own loving parent, guide, and best friend. Your own safe and nurturing environment is essential for your continued growth and expansion. The more someone activates you the more you are looking for your own love, protection, and guidance in that area of your life.

You don’t have to get upset or stay focused on what is unwanted. The fastest way to redirect is to simply say no thank you and move along. Much like the algorithms that are used on your internet to keep track of your preferences, your focus is what keeps something active in your reality. Being able to stay in a place of balance and move on past what doesn’t resonate or support you in being your best self without pushing against it is what keeps you refining your own sacred space. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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God said:

Yes, often days on Earth seem like skirmishes to you. You want more of a day, or you want less of it, depending upon happenstance and your view.

You are not always hard to please. I understand that you do deal with every day as best as you can at the time.

One of the greatest things you can do to shift your satisfaction with your life experience and embrace your creator self is to re-examine the circumstances of your life with fresh eyes and start making choices based on preference.

So first we highly recommend you stop and ask yourself what you would do if you did not know one person in the world. What would you do if there was absolutely no fear of judgment? If you had no one you felt you needed to please? If you knew for sure everything would turn out fine?

Now that you have some clarity about how you are denying yourself or holding yourself back, decide which elements you wish to bring forward with you in your life expression. This is the critical part. Make sure if you are bringing something forward due to a sense of duty, responsibility, or personal integrity, that you are clear on the fact that you are now doing it because you choose to, not because you have to.

Recognizing that everything is a free will choice is how you heal resentment, Dear Ones. It is how you shift into self responsibility from victim consciousness and start to embrace your innate and authentic power as the creator of your life expression. It moves you from resistance to acceptance, which will create far more satisfaction in all your interactions with others. Choice is your empowerment in action. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

God said:

When it comes right down to it, there are times when life shakes you up and may leave you weary. Of course, you would love to be clear about life, what it is doing, and what you are to do with it. Too often you may feel you are treading choppy waters.