Deciding something isn’t a match for you is giving a loud energetic no. There is nothing more you need to do. You do not need to look for other people’s agreement, or to make any sort of point. The fact that something isn’t the right energy for you is a decision only you can make from your own truth and vantage point. You are the energetic expert on you, and the only one qualified to decide what is appropriate for you or not.
But once you decide what isn’t a match, you no longer have to be on the lookout for it, because that would be using your focus to invite it to continue as part of your experience. It would be giving it your blessing of continuation.
Your energetic no is a stop point to that flow. But from there you must withdraw your energy and redirect. You are clear about what doesn’t match you. Now it is time to move into the discovery of what does.
You might think of it as a maze. If you hit an energetic dead end, you don’t need to keep pushing against it. You can simply turn around and choose a new direction and experience. And if you don’t like the next experience, you can choose again and again, until you find the match that makes your soul sing.
