Do you find yourself getting offended when others tell you what to do? This is a sure sign of your own evolution.

You have worked hard to find your way to your own divinity and complete capability to step forward as the empowered creator of your life expression. You have shifted out of the illusion of powerlessness into your authentic power. You are now seeing yourself as a sovereign being that is not only completely capable of leading your own life expression, but of pioneering into brand new energies and unprecedented potentials. Your freedom of self expression is of paramount importance to honour your soul’s agenda.

Dear Ones, the people who push your energetic buttons are the very ones who are showing up to help you master your boundaries and get clear about what energy is in resonance with you or not. As the empowered leader of your own life expression, you are absolutely within your rights to say no to anything that is not empowering, uplifting, supportive, or honouring you and your sovereignty.

Just as a good parent will step in to keep their child protected from anything that isn’t appropriate, you get to do the same thing for yourself, as your own loving parent, guide, and best friend. Your own safe and nurturing environment is essential for your continued growth and expansion. The more someone activates you the more you are looking for your own love, protection, and guidance in that area of your life.

You don’t have to get upset or stay focused on what is unwanted. The fastest way to redirect is to simply say no thank you and move along. Much like the algorithms that are used on your internet to keep track of your preferences, your focus is what keeps something active in your reality. Being able to stay in a place of balance and move on past what doesn’t resonate or support you in being your best self without pushing against it is what keeps you refining your own sacred space. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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Your encouragement for however another human being wishes to express themselves is a powerful support to help people expand and discover their own gifts, preferences, purpose, and mastery. It is honouring another's free will and exploration of self. Your faith in their ability to guide themselves helps them deepen their own faith in their own divine capability. Doesn't that sound much more empowering than the old rescuing patterns you used to call love? ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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We wish to explain to you the mechanics of how surrender works. When you surrender, you are choosing to shift into empowered movement. Your act of surrender gives permission to your team of helpers to start to actively assist you. It is stepping out of separation into the whole. Surrender is a sacred act, and there is great rejoicing, both on a soul level and also from the universe when it happens, for you are choosing empowerment, inclusion, and a higher vibrational navigation system that can move you forward in your life expression in the most remarkable ways.

So what can often occur is shortly after you surrender is you find yourself coming up against what you perceive to be your biggest obstacle. This does not mean that it is not working! In fact, it is telling you that you are ready to move through that blockage with the most assistance possible in new ways that you may not have been aware of. This is your divine guidance leading you around, over, or through this challenge so you can move beyond it once and for all.

This is where most people panic and think surrender doesn't work, so they move back into resistance, creating a space of considerable discomfort for themselves. This amounts to staying behind your blockage, bumping into it continually, which only adds to how uncomfortable you are. Discomfort only occurs in order to get you to redirect. When circumstances become too uncomfortable, people surrender, which brings the change your soul is seeking.

Human beings are so incredibly hard on themselves. You learn about something such as your thoughts, emotions, and focus being the basis for creation, and then put incredible pressure on yourselves to have 100% positive compliance. If you do not, you immediately berate yourself for your lack of mastery.

Dear Ones, if we had one wish for you it would be that you start to be loving and gentle with yourselves and to understand that big change does not require perfection to occur. This can be achieved by lovingly and patiently rerouting yourselves if something comes into your awareness other than what you wish to create. In fact, your own love and acceptance creates a profound energetic shift in itself!

So, for example, if you happened to catch yourself having a negative thought, and you didn't berate yourself but simply guided yourself into having gratitude for two things, you would tip your vibrational scales into what was preferred immediately and start creating positive change in your life, with the added bonus of anchoring the energy of loving and nurturing yourself.

There would be no need to panic or beat yourself up because you realize you could, with your awareness, make the empowered decision to choose preference in that right now moment. Perfection is not required because your life circumstances are a vibrational response to the energetics you hold and the majority of your focus and your positive feedback to the universe.