When you experience disappointment in another it is because you are looking outside of yourself for satisfaction. As you have no control over what another does, this amounts to gambling with your happiness. You will always end up feeling let down in one way or another, because only you can create your own foundation of wholeness.

What you are truly seeking, and what will always satisfy you, is connecting to the unconditionally loving and supportive Source within you. Choose to love yourself so completely and deliciously that your deep satisfaction is assured. From there it is easy to simply love and accept others for who, and where they are, without condition. ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2015/12/01/daily-message-tuesday-december-1-2015/

God said:

Everyone loves being favored. Nothing wrong with this. Enjoy to your heart’s content. If the world adores you, then enjoy this adoration while you're at it.

Here’s the thing: You don't have to be adored by the world. You don't have to be in the limelight. It is also perfectly all right to be ordinary and unnoticed in the world. What you think of yourself truly matters, for how you think of yourself is what your life amounts to.

You can also be the unobtrusive valet who walks around in the background. You don’t have to be the focus. You can just as well be the valet as the man who is served. You don’t have to be the star of the show. There really isn’t all that much to it. Anything you must have rules the roost.

It comes right down to this: What matters most is who you are and not plaudits or what you seemingly possess.

Fame is short-lived, and what do you have when you have it? What you are is yours. You belong to your Being. You are yourself, and this is wonderful. Regardless of anything else, you are God's Child. You are definitely My Child.

Be glad that you made it this far.

When there is a time you see yourself set above others, know this is just a flash in the pan, and get over it.

When you yearn for something out of reach, it seems awesome. When you do have it, it’s just another something to deal with. That which you sought, as soon as it is in your hand, may seem cumbersome. You might have to even brace yourself for it.

In all communication, there is one thing that each and every one us requires. We all want to be appreciated, honoured, and respected. None of us want to feel criticized, rejected, ignored, or manipulated. To reduce it to its simplest terms, we each want to feel loved. I do not mean love in a romantic sense, or some outpouring of emotion, but simple caring. This is the universal bottom line of every human relationship. We all want to feel cared for.

If each of us would like to be treated with care and respect, then it should be our intent to do so for others. But what often happens is the exact opposite. Instead of trying to ensure that the other person feels loved and appreciated, we end up in a vicious circle of recrimination and attack.

It usually starts by our feelings hurt over something someone said or did. Whether they intended to hurt us or whether it is all our own creation does not matter. The fact is we feel hurt, and if we are not fully conscious of our own inner processes, we are likely to defend ourselves by attacking back in some way. It’s not the most noble or wisest response, nevertheless that is the way us less-than-enlightened folk sometimes react.