Many of us who are in a long time relationship sometimes find that we are distanced from our partner and that this is making our relationship not working as well as it used to in the beginning. Fortunately, this can be undone and with love and dedication one can reconnect with his or her partner. Below are some powerful tips on how to build a more intimate relationship with your partner.

Focus on growing your friendship.

In order for your love relationship to be intimate you first need to become good friends with your partner. That means that you should treat your partner with kindness, love and respect, just like you would do with your best friends. Spend time together, laugh together, play around together. This will help nurture your relationship and bring you much closer to one another.

Many people’s first reaction to a situation is to react with love and compassion. Then, before they do, they start to hold themselves back based on what others will say. They fear they will look weak, or stupid, so they ignore their first instinct and miss an opportunity to express themselves in their truth. This is a classic example of how you have been trained to keep yourselves small.

Dear Ones, lead with your light, your compassion, and your glorious hearts, for that is the demonstration of your truth and authenticity. As more and more people give themselves permission to let their divinity lead the way, you will shift the societal norms and anchor the energies of unconditional love and unity consciousness, which is exactly what your pioneering spirit is on the planet to do. ~Archangel Gabriel

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God said:

Your life is all about you. Of course, I have said that life is not all about you. Yes, life is about much more than you. Nevertheless, you are the one who lives your life. It is for you to make hay while the sun shines. Your life certainly seems to happen to you. You are the one who leads your life. Listen to that expression – you lead your life. There is the portion in which you direct your life to be one way or another.

For example, you may have a day or part of a day, where you are laughing, laughing, laughing. Presumably you’re laughing because funny things are happening, or you are reading about funny things, or you happen to remember something that makes you laugh. You decide there has to be a bona-fide reason for your laughing, and so you find it.

Of course, something outside may trigger your laughing. All the while, the laughter comes out from inside you. The laughter bubbles up from within you. Then something on the outside gives your laughter a poke, and so you find an excuse for laughing. Do you agree, that whatever alibi you have for the cause of your laughter, the stimulation comes deeply from within you? Something or another stimulates your laughter. You have been waiting for it.

It is interesting to observe your humanness. Some of you proclaim the want and need for change, however, you will continue to sit where you are….never moving, never changing and never making any forward movement to elevate yourself. The Universe strives to fulfill any wish, dream or desire, but it does require some effort on your part.
If you do not know where to begin, start with your thoughts and words. Metaphorically speaking; you cannot become clean while sitting in a mud hole. It is up to you to think one good thought, say one good thing a day to ‘get the ball rolling’. My beautiful child, I am waiting! When would you like to start? ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2015/08/12/climbing-out/